GOLDEN GAYTIME SANGA

There are certain pleasures that are best enjoyed in the summer. The definition of summer differs in different places and I have been in the UK when people were out sunbathing in temperatures that would not see Australians take off their jumpers. This is a type of localism and the weather does matter for what one eats too. It matters for what we grow in our veggie patch to what is available at farmer’s markets to what our bodies crave whether we sunbathe or whether we stay inside. 

Recently, K. and I have been making our way through a variety of salads, sometimes by themselves, sometimes with a serving of meat on the side. Often these are celebrations of greenness, and today, I made a salad with snow peas, broccoli, Brussels sprout, fennel, red onion, cucumber and cos. It had a lemony dressing with dill, yoghurt, Japanese pickled ginger, a splash of mirin, and a spoon of honey. Salads like this are one way to define summer and we are getting the most out of it given that the days are getting shorter and the nights are cool enough for doonas.

We have been clinging to the warmth though and ice cream has become particularly important lately.  We have been making up for lost time given we had two winters back to back because of moving hemispheres. Recently, we have been eating ice cream like it has been going out of fashion, like kids who have pocket money to spare and no parents to watch them before bedtime. Ice cream is a simple joy that one never gets tired of.

I do, of course, have favourites in every sector of the ice cream sector. When it is homemade I prefer fruit sorbets including watermelon, finger lime and raspberry. From the supermarket, give me Connoisseur from vanilla to chocolate brownie . I would take Connoisseur for value and taste over haughtier, arriviste, pretentious, bourgeois mini buckets like Maggie Beer’s burnt fig. When we are in Perth, we are lucky in having many gelaterias to choose from be that Chicho to Whisk. At Chicho, I inevitably go for something with chocolate bits or toffee or caramel, but at Whisk, I go for matcha soft serve, which is sweet, rich and creamy as you would expect. There is also a hint of smoky bitterness that you get from green tea – a perfect combination that balances in your palate. And, of course, there is ice cream you get at restaurants. The other month I went to Long Chim up in the city, and they had a coconut ice cream as part of one dish in particular. It was a little frosty, but the depth of flavour made up for the texture and one could taste the freshness of the dish as it worked with the other elements.

But for all these places to get ice cream, and for all the pleasure in them, there is nothing I prefer than getting an ice cream at the servo and driving home from the beach with the window down and the warm breeze rushing through your hair. Our car has a good sound system and when the right tune comes on, this becomes a moment of deep contentment, of tarruru, a time to reflect and think of what the day has been like, and what comes next.

I associate servo ice cream with road trips between Perth and down south (Yallingup, Margaret River, Pemberton). It was one of the few times we were allowed our own ice cream. Back then it was a choice between Calypso, Raspberry Split, Choc Wedge, Peter’s Bucket, Hazlenut Roll, Cornetto. They each had their merits and there was always some sort of conversation in our family about what to get. The only ice cream that was off limits was the Bubble O Bill, which my parents forbade on account of too much sugar. It was his nose, which was made of bubblegum, that tipped it over the edge.

This summer I have been drawn to the Golden Gaytime. After their disastrous attempt at selling the cookie crumbs by themselves, I have maintained a little bit of distance. But enough time had elapsed for me to have a dip once again in their cool and happy waters. Tonight, we are coming back from fish and chips with in-laws down by the coast and the servo is lit up, enticing us with cheap neon. The weather is still warm enough for ice cream and K and I talk about our desire for something sweet – we debate the merits of Conoisseur or gelato, but settle on the servo.

I had not tried the Golden Gaytime Sanga before, being stuck on the original, which is simply an ice cream on a stick. The original was first released in 1959 and is a toffee and vanilla ice cream dipped in compound chocolate and crumbed with honeycomb biscuits. In 2015, they announced an ice cream tub to take home; in 2016, they announced a cone in the Cornetto format; and in 2017, they released the ‘sanga’, which is simply an ice cream sandwich. There is also a ‘unicorn’ one that is purple and pink, and a pina colada version, but it is best to avoid commenting on these two, which you can only really find at supermarkets rather than at servos on the way home. So, what did I make of this sandwich, the latest addition to the Golden Gaytime family?

The sanga is in two halves – one is ice cream with biscuit around it and the other is chocolate with their classic crumb that looks like panko. It is sweet and the biscuit gives in a little quickly – it is too soft for my liking. The chocolate on the other side is thin and it does not crack the way better ice creams of this kind do. I cannot say which half I prefer, but it is superior to any other sandwich ice cream out there. It might be worth pausing on whether ice cream sandwiches that are not made fresh are the best choice out of the freezer. I like how cones go soft and the fruit sorbets often hold their shape. But the sandwich is often caught in between, neither here nor there. This one fails to reach the heights of the original Gaytime even though the heavier crumb is something to like. As a moment though, as a freeze frame that captures the essentials of summer, it matters, it transcends its simpleness as a food to become part of a memory that resonates with the body, and that might be all you can really ask for at $4.25 at this time of night.




YARDBYRD BREKKY ROLL

I was feeling a little nostalgic this past week but only on account of the change in the seasons. K and I moved back to South Western Australia six weeks back and since then we have been blessed with the second summer on offer here, a season Noongar people call ‘Bunuru’ that runs in conjunction with February and March for the most part. Traditionally, tailor and mullet were caught, and people roasted bloodroot, a spicy tuber that Paul Iskov uses with Fervor.

We had been up in Perth for a little while, giving talks at a writers’ festival and doing some teaching at the local university, and Kelly managed to fit in a short trip to Bombay. But, we decided to move back down to Redgate, which is in the Margaret River region. There is no place I would rather be than Redgate. It is the name of the beach where we surf, swim, walk, catch crays, and relax in every sort of way. It is also what we call our house down there, a place my parents have had for thirty years and that I have been coming to all my life.

At Redgate one can contemplate, read, think, enjoy, and simply be in a very different way. I love big cities and have been lucky enough to spend time in many of them, but coming here re-calibrates you. It balances you and you feel connected to something bigger in a humbling way. It does not hurt that it is beautiful in a basic sense and that the body feels at peace when you come into the valley, walk among the karri, watch the sun set into the Indian Ocean with nothing but the birds, the breeze and each other for company.

When we head this way, it feels like coming home, even though home can be found in a good book and a cup of tea anywhere in the world. If I began ‘Food Blog’ in New York, Redgate feels like a different place to arrive at, a place where we live in very different circumstances. No more rats, no more subway, no more endless choice. Here is fishing, four wheel drives, a handful of places that you can eat at. This last observation is not quite right if only because the region offers so many wineries that you cannot exhaust them all, not even if you tried.

A winery lunch is the main gastronomic experience here and I myself have worked at degustation dinners and wedding banquets at Watershed, a local vineyard up the road. But, you cannot eat at a winery every day partly because of the hip pocket cost to a freelance writer who works mainly in poetry, and partly on account of good taste. The winery lunch is an occasional celebration reserved for friends who are visiting and want to be treated to Contemporary Australian. Here, we mainly eat at home and when we do head out for lunch, we find out where is good through word of mouth, by asking chefs in the neighbourhood where they would recommend at the moment. This changes with the seasons.

What matters most when you get somewhere new, or return home, is to find a good local from cafe to pub to market. K and I had a morning local in White Gold Butchers, the subject of my very first blog. You might recall that we used to get breakfast rolls there – egg, American cheese, ham on a Kaiser poppy seed roll that was a sweet, salty, umami, messy way to begin each day. White Gold was a heart attack kind of life just a five block walk away. I miss it every now and then even as I am deeply content here. K thought the coffee was good and we loved the vibe, which was very Upper West Side, maybe even New York, in an unpretentious kind of way. It was a neighbourhood kind of place, but the neighbourhood was unique and so very different from Redgate.

There is not a single place to eat at Redgate. There is no town to speak of, and maybe, it is best to think of it as a hamlet, a collection of houses spread through the bush. Six kilometres up the road and a ten minute drive from the coast is the town of Witchcliffe, which has a population of 400 or so. Our mail gets delivered there. It also has a tennis court, Country Women’s Association hall, bush fire brigade, Red Cross op shop, petrol station, candle and crafts store, antique store, bottle O, pie shop, tractor dealer, and, finally, a café called Yardbyrd.

Yardbyrd opened while we were away. We knew it was coming because we visited the owner on the last day of his old café, Little Willy’s, which was in Northbridge, the suburb next to the central business district in Perth where most restaurants, clubs and shops are. Opening Yardbyrd was his seachange, and is a new kind of morning local for us. It has a courtyard with tables and chairs, an indoors with a potbelly stove, and a menu that is straight down the line Australian café – brekky roll, burritos, continental sandwiches, savoury muffin, eggs poached, scrambled, fried. It also has a coffee list to make our New York friends think again about what good coffee is.

It had slipped our minds, but today was Good Friday and we wanted to grab a bite to eat. Against all odds, Yardbyrd was open and, as it so happened, pumping when we arrived mid morning. There was a cross section of down south society there – hippies, hipsters, backpackers; pensioners, tradies, farmers; tourists, salty dogs and hot bods. We got a seat and ordered simply. They were friendly and prompt. If you remember my order at White Gold, you will know I ordered a brekky roll.

The brekky roll satisfies the basic criteria – breakfast meat and an egg. This one differentiates itself on account of the tomato chutney and the handful of fresh baby spinach. The chutney adds some sweetness to the salty bacon, a bit of moisture too, and the spinach a bit of earthy freshness that cuts through the eggy mouthfeel. The bread is dense, somewhere between sourdough and damper, but lavishly buttered and altogether homely.

This breakfast roll is great at what it does best – it tastes like a friendly welcome that knows what good living is. Like being here at Redgate, one feels closer to nature. The spinach makes it greener. It is a cousin to the breakfast rolls in New York, but they only maintain a family resemblance on account of the ingredients, nothing more. They are not siblings let alone twins and both have a place in my heart as the kind of thing I want every now and then.


The space where Yardbyrd is now, used to be a high end, French influenced restaurant called Robbie’s Place. As a kid, I liked that we shared a name. My dad took me there once, just the two of us, and it was the fanciest meal I had enjoyed up until that point of my very short life. It's cooking was different to Yarbyrd, but they share a great vibe. Yardbyrd has that indefinable quality, something we might call feel, something that comes with confidence as well as perspective. It is a place that doesn’t try too hard, but gets on with the job of being a very good local that responds to the needs of the place and its community. I couldn’t be happier to see it arrive and it adds to my fondness for Witchcliffe just up the road from where we like to spend our days, just a minute away from Redgate where we call home.


COOKING SCHOOL

As a child, I cooked the things kids cook – pikelets, shepherd’s pie, pumpkin soup, pita bread pizza, cheese toasties. It was a little different for us because we grew up near the Swan River and that meant we went prawning too. With that, we knew how to shell a prawn from early on, just like we could gut a fish or get abalone from the ledges or knew the basics of curries. When I was a child, I was very close to one uncle in particular. He was a surveyor by trade and had worked all over northern Australia. When he retired he went to TAFE and learned how to cook in a formal way, making everything from vegan chocolate cake to almond croissants. He taught me how to bake and we would often spend the weekends making copious amounts of food for my extended family. That was real pleasure.

I got my first job at 13 at Pizza Hut, where I was a kitchen-hand making $5.62 an hour. This was a high status job among kids at high school. We had kids who worked at the supermarket, others on milk runs or newspaper deliveries, some who did gardening jobs or washed cars, even others who would only work during the summer at farms on the outskirts of Perth. But fast food was were you wanted to be because of its perks. This included bringing back stuffed up orders much to the delight of everyone at parties. When you finished your shift at 10 pm and kids were hanging out pretending to like the warm beer no one could finish or wondering why the goon was missing, you could arrive with three or four pizzas and everyone was pleased to see you. Sometimes they had to pick the anchovies off the BBQ meatlovers or reassemble something that had been dropped inside the box, but it was free food and that was all that mattered. No one cared, that the meat was cubed, the cheese rubbery, the dough starched and the whole thing greasy. We loved it. For me, I was determined to take a year off after high school to go travelling, and with every $38 paycheck I got I was a little bit closer to leaving home.

The summer before I left, I worked two jobs – daytime shifts at a fresh pasta place where I would spend countless hours cutting cannelloni into the same length. My nights were at a boutique woodfired pizza place where my boss was intent on keeping me well fed. Whereas Pizza Hut was strict with its staff, here we laughed and joked, and cut our produce fresh. I will never forget my first day there, where I spent three hours prepping mushrooms for dinner service. The other advantage was that I did not have to shampoo my hair every time I got home for lack of grease in the air.

As I backpacked around America and Western Europe, I ate in lots of places, mainly sandwiches, pizza and pasta as befits a seventeen year old kid on a grand tour of the big cities around the world. I do not remember any meals in particular though my sister tells me that I used to eat a lot of Carl’s Jr. in Los Angeles and we went for one extravagantly priced sushi meal on Sunset Boulevard. Occasionally, I would pine for a curry, and currywurst was never quite on par. But for the most part, food did not matter on that trip.

Something changed when I made my way to university in Canberra. During that time, I lived in sharehouses with vegetarians and vegans who were happy to cook a combination of any vegetables you could imagine with spices of all kinds. There were always plenty of root vegetables from our farm co-op boxes, maybe some lentils, and to vary it, someone would add either a can of tomatoes or a can of coconut milk. It was, inevitably, served over brown rice. Welcome to adulthood. It was different when I cooked because I adhered to an established set of flavours – making lasagne in a traditional way or curries from my mum in what approximated how she did it. If I was eating hippy slops, I did not want to cook it also.

The real difference between my friends and me was my semi-annual treat – dinner by myself at the city’s best restaurant, Chairman and Yip. For five years, I ate there at the start of each semester when my scholarship check came in. By the end of it, I was on a first name basis with the manager and, even now, can recall many great dishes they served – beef and scallop hotpot; shantung lamb; duck and mushroom pancakes; sea cucumber and pumpkin in chilli; braised oxtail. If I had grown up eating good food in Wembley and Redgate, Chairman and Yip was where I learned to dine as an adult, to overcome the fear of being alone in a room, the shame of wearing a t-shirt when everyone was in suits, the embarrassment of never leaving a tip because you could barely afford the meal to begin with. That indulgence kept me going when I was away from home as much as the warm community of friends with whom I went dumpster diving, ate button soups and drank home brewed kombucha.

I found a similar scene in Philadelphia where I lived with people who volunteered at co-ops. In the home, meat was never allowed. My escape there was a weekly game of poker held every Tuesday with Columbian friends from around the neighbourhood. They would bring empanadas from home and I supplied a case of beer – the cheapest I could find, which was ice-brewed Milwaukee’s Best. At $12 for 30 cans it was a bargain, and at 4.8% no one could beat it for easy drinking. If that card game was not a release from the puritanical wellness of my houses, then how I wound up the night surely was. When the game had broken up, I would go and have a City Wide Special at a local bar that was always open – a tallboy of Pabst Blue Ribbon and a double shot of Jim Beam for $3. Then I would bike down to South Philadelphia, a thirty-minute ride away, to get a cheesesteak from Pat’s. It was as ugly, basic and disgusting as Chairman and Yip was refined. But at 3am, it hit the spot and I will always love that place because of the accumulated memories. It was a guilty pleasure that would have outraged my moral housemates.

For a year or so after Philadelphia, I worked as a waiter. In Australia, no one needed a historian of the American west. At that time, people were needed to work on the mines. But that was never my cup of tea and so I took the only job offered to me – waiting tables at a winery up the road from Redgate. There, I learned how to hold three plates, to pour wine properly, to run the pass, but never how to make a good flat white. Without that knowledge, I was not going very far and when the union saw potential in me, I shifted gears and went to work as an organiser in the aged care sector. Visiting all those nursing homes, I did not even want to think about food.

Since then, I have spent periods of time in Paris, Berlin, New Delhi, Melbourne, Bombay, Kochi and New York. In Paris, I fell in love with fresh produce, especially radishes; in Berlin, it was pickles care of Turkish cuisine and sauerkrauts; in New Delhi, I grew a sweet tooth that I did not know I had; in Melbourne, I ate so well on a regular basis that I began to understand what is wonderful about neighbourhood places; in Bombay where to eat street food is a blessing from the benevolent gods; and in Kochi my wife and I fell further in love with each other while getting in touch with the deep flavours of my family past.

I have travelled a lot as well – to Bolivia and Peru where I ate such wonderful grilled meats that hit somewhere deep; to Mexico where I ate a mole covered whole chicken in Peubla that was worth the bus trip there; to California and up the west coast where I understood what fusion was because people simply live it; to South Africa where I got why new world wine has such big flavour; and right through Asia from nasi padang in Indonesia to sour hot soup in Thailand to dumpling feasts in shiny new malls in China. I spent my honeymoon in Venice. On that trip, we ate the best steak of our lives served on a large wooden platter at a student haunt called Al Timon overlooking a canal in Canareggio. It came with grilled vegetables, chips, romesco sauce. The weather was balmy, the red wine was flowing, it was La Dolce Vita. We would never be this young again. I felt like a connoisseur getting used to the idea of using the word ‘wife’ in a sentence and understanding what it meant to truly live.

But for all that, New York was where I thought about the role of food in my life. In New York, like everywhere else, food matters. But, there you see so many kinds of cuisine, so many restaurants simply doing their own thing. New York is a city of villages and in our short time there, we became creatures of habit as much as anyone else. We lived on the Upper West Side, and, for the most part, never left it. Occasionally, we would venture downtown to see a show or hike to Brooklyn to catch up with friends. But we lived within walking distance of everywhere one would want to get to, and so, we ended up, by default or design, falling in love with our neighbourhood.

While we were there we had regular breakfasts at a butcher, White Gold, which served the best bacon and egg rolls I have ever experienced. The only one that got close was when I drove back to Western Australia from Port Augusta, right across the Nullarbor by myself before stopping at dawn at a roadside servo near Kalgoorlie. It was the best thing I had eaten for weeks, but perhaps this was not on account of the roll itself but my starved palate. Here in New York though, the fresh bacon, the melting American cheese, the poppy-seed Kaiser roll, all come to a delicious synthesis.

For lunch, we go to our favourite diner, which does a very good lasagne with burnt corners and extra sauce on the side with bread that reminds you of flying in an aeroplane as a child. For dinners, we often find ourselves at a ramen bar that has silky smooth, deep, bowls of flavour that keep you warm in winter. These are our neighbourhood haunts that we love to walk to and settle in with books. There we watch New Yorkers talking about how they are all the greatest ever, beyond doubt and without peer, truly masters of the universe.

We have also had festive meals that linger in the memory – Thanksgiving at a farm down south; an extraordinary Contemporary Mexican with an excellent meringue and corn mousse that ranks as one of the great dishes of my life; and a welcome plate of Southern food in Harlem on Martin Luther King day when good feelings where in the air at Sylvia’s.

And throughout it all, I have been cooking, including in a New York kitchen fit for someone smaller, where the gas stove is untrustworthy and bench space tiny. Here, I have made some memorable meals for family and friends: barley soup with fresh herbs and peas; heirloom carrot salads with seeds, black olives and goat’s cheese; roast eggplant and red onion dishes with soy and fish sauce served on rice. But, it is not home, it only is the finishing school for what has been my food journey so far.


MY FATHER'S PLACE

If chicken curry is one half of home, the other half is Redgate, which is our place in the country. Located in the Margaret River region of the south west of Western Australia, Redgate was where we went for weekends and school breaks. Sometimes we headed overseas, to see family in Singapore or further afield to San Francisco, Berlin, Cape Town. If cities seemed foreign, Redgate was where we had the freedom to explore the bush and the beach.

When we were there, we were coastal creatures – wake up, surf, eat breakfast, swim, eat lunch, nap, go fishing, watch the sunset, eat dinner, read, fall asleep with salt in our hair, midnight snack, sleep with sand in the bed; wake up, surf, eat breakfast, you get the idea. The days had a rhythm to them, which connected us to nature, connected us to something that was bigger than me, or my suburb or even the cities we loved to visit on distant shores.

Redgate was where I learned to respect and cherish the land. Without a grounding there I do not think I would have spent time in the Pilbara, the Kimberley, the Top End or Centre. I feel good there in a way that is different to the feeling in New York and India, different again from my family home in the suburbs. Redgate is a place I keep returning to, where I am pulled by the ocean, the beaches, the forest, the weather, the memories. And it is a place that reminds me of my father like chicken curry does with my mother.

My father’s family lived in Scotland before they migrated to Australia. His father came to Western Australia at the age of nineteen in 1924 and set up shop as a baker, which had been his trade for five years. He worked all over the state from Albany in the south to Karratha in the north with time as a logger, tin miner, and whaler along the way. The last job he had was running a chicken shop with my grandmother in the years he should have been retired. But, he needed to keep the wolf from the door and food was what he knew how to sell. These days, my father still has family in his ancestral village in Scotland, including a cousin who is the last wild salmon fisherman in the United Kingdom. That cousin still rows out each day to catch his daily bread, which he smokes and sends down to Harrods for the luxury set.

My father is a fisherman too, but only a dedicated amateur. When he is down at Redgate, he spends the mornings checking his craypots and getting abalone off the rocks before going fishing in the evening. He is more successful than not and his love of it brings people with him, including my uncle and brother-in-law. It is how he recharges his batteries so he can continue to work up in the city and beyond.

It might be worth pausing here to think about what fishing means in Australia today, where there are myths that circulate about who we are and where our food comes from. One of the stories we tell ourselves is that we are an outdoor people, and compared to those who live in big cities overseas, that rings true. This is despite the fact that most of us live in the suburbs on a thin strip of land by the coast, and do not get into nature as much as we could.

Nevertheless, Australians care about the environment and there is work to do as a community. We have to fight to protect the places that are important to us just like we need to protect the rights of people. But, fishing in Australia is the largest recreational activity and it provides an opportunity for people to share and connect with each other. That means we must acknowledge the Indigenous presence as an ongoing and important part of history, belonging and identity. To see the fish traps, the middens, the stories that tell us about the land and sea is important and this can sit comfortably next to experiences of non-Indigenous people. Where would we be without people who have cared for country for as long as anyone knows? Where would we be without the work of rangers who come from all kinds of backgrounds? And where would we be without our own fishing trips as well?

For many years, my father has kept a record of the crayfish he has caught and submitted it to the West Australian Department of Fisheries. Along with thousands of other amateur fishermen, this goes into protecting the stocks. One year, the department gave out the first commercial license on the stretch of coast where we have our pots. That summer down at the reef we could see the boat pulling in hundreds and hundred of crays every day. That season was our worst on record. People were outraged and not only because it meant the amateurs were not catching their own, but because the professional’s pots were dangerous for surfers. We could not even buy those crays because they were flown overseas in ice filled polystyrene boxes that very same day.  People protested and the commercial license was revoked. It took a few years for the crays to come back, but last season was the best we have had for some time yet. It was how K and I fed our Wembley wedding guests.

You might be thinking now, how does one catch crayfish? Crayfish at Redgate are actually Western Rock Lobster, one of six saltwater lobster species found in the waters of Western Australia. There are also freshwater crustaceans called marron that you get in damns on the farms nearby and these have proved a hit with haute cuisine. The crayfish season runs from October 15th to June 30th, but most people take their pots out of the water before Easter. You can also dive for crays, snaring them with a loop or entangling them in the strands of a mop.

You can purchase a second-hand pot quite easily and there are two main kinds. The first are rectangular and the second are shaped like a circular beehive. Both of them have a large opening that the crayfish swims into and must be fitted with escape hatches so the undersize ones can find their way out. The pots have bait cages inside them and we use tuna heads. People used to use roadkill like rabbits and kangaroos, and, for a time, we used cows hooves. But those baits had been made illegal. Dad gets his tuna heads from the same place he always has, a warehouse in Fremantle that is a wonderful place for the fisherman with everything you could want. The pots also have weights in them so they are not washed away when the swell comes up. We have an engine manifold in one, concrete in another. They are fitted with ropes so you can pull them up and a buoy that has your initials on it so rangers can check whether you are licensed and other fishermen know what belongs to whom.

You cannot take crayfish with tarspots or berries (which are eggs) because these are the breeders that will produce the next generation. You have to adhere to size limits and you can ‘only’ take eight per pot per day. You must cut out part of the tail when you catch them so you cannot sell them to restaurants. And you would be best served by going with someone in case the ocean is rough or the pot is stuck. Every captain needs a first mate.

Over the years, my dad’s first mate has become my brother-in-law. Sometimes, my dad and his brother will go fishing together in the evening, come back afterwards and share a dram of whiskey as the sky melts into darkness. And, I have fished with my dad in Mexico, reeled in tuna the length of your body on the Baja Peninsula, eaten tacos al pastor and downed beers all day, laughing at the size of what we caught. But given that he checks the craypots at dawn, it has fallen to my brother-in-law to go with my dad to make sure he is not taken off by a wave, or if he is, we still get the crayfish and the story of his death that same day.

My brother-in-law is pretty handy and he is good at telling fishing stories. I have heard him entertain long tables with tales of the Gove Peninsula eating flying foxes when he worked in pearling, and those from his traditional country in the Western Pilbara getting chased by wild horses on the way home from fishing in rivers, or with cousin brothers on the Dampier Peninsula spending whole days reeling in dhufish and queenies and coral trout. If they catch nothing at Redgate, he still is able to make it entertaining when they come back in time for breakfast.

With him, I have found sugarbag on Croydon Station and hunted marlu (kangaroo) on the plateau outside Roebourne, chowed down on Mrs Lot’s chicken and spread goanna fat on damper at the law ground, gone to fine dining places on the East Coast of Australia, eaten apple pie in Los Angeles and fried sandwiches in Philadelphia, gorged on duck in Singapore and stuffed ourselves on Thanksgiving turkey in rural Virginia. He has brought me dumplings in hospital and I have stocked his freezer with bolognaise when he brought home his newborn son, who happens to be my nephew. More than anything, he has taught me what brotherly love is and the importance of his culture. As part of that, I have begun to learn a little about ngurra, which is to say ‘country’. Ngurra is like terroir but deeper, an attachment to place that matters within your mind, body, soul; it is the land you return to, come from, that you belong with. I think that is the hope of my father and my brother-in-law in seeing the dawn each day when they check for crays – that this ngurra, this place called Redgate, looks after us all, gives us a reason to go on when we are wrecked from life itself. But, that country is also simply beautiful, as beautiful as one can imagine, and the crays are as delicious as can be. That is part of what draws us to it and why we must look after it, always.

Let us assume for a moment that you have caught a crayfish, that your dad and brother-in-law have come home with a good haul. Let us also assume that you get to eat them today rather than freeze them for someone’s wedding a few months away. The day is sunny and warm, the sound of cicadas can be heard while you drink your tea at the table outside, the kids are happy playing, and your veggies are doing ok even though the possums have been in amongst the greens.

First you will want to make a salad – some lettuce and kale from the garden, some basil and mint too; then, because the tomatoes have come on, a handful of those. The farmers’ market was on this morning in Margaret River and you picked up some avocadoes from down the road. Slice them thinly. The dressing does not need to be fancy – some garlic, some maple syrup, some sherry vinegar, some good olive oil. And a sprinkling of seeds tossed in lemon myrtle powder – sesame, pumpkin, slivered almonds.

The crays are a good size today and there are enough for us to have a half each. You pierce the head and cut them down the middle, remove the guts. The meat is translucent, pearly even, and you marvel at the muscle in the tail because that is your meal. It is time to heat the barbeque up, to oil the crays a little, sprinkle a little salt, a little pepper. Once the hot plate is searing, place them flesh down and move them so they do not stick. Cook them for a couple of minutes until you see the shell start to change colour. Then flip them and cook them through, keep the middle a little raw but warmed. A garnish of lemon and chilli fresh from the garden and there you have it. Serve with a chilled chardonnay and talk about the world.

I have eaten crayfish other ways – in curry, in ceviche, in tacos, in pasta, in chowder. But I love the simplicity of the grill, of letting the freshness of the meat come through, of letting the taste of the ocean, of the ngurra, speak in the ingredients alone. It is summer too and the cooking should not take long. This gives you more time to drink wine and relax in the company of family you have not seen for a while. To think about crayfish like this is not to romanticise the country, or summers at Redgate in any particular way. Some days there is nothing in the pot, and, when that happens, you feel defeated by the ocean itself. But it makes you respect what nature has in store for you, makes sure you know that you are a part of something bigger and that counts for a lot. Its not what you catch, but how you live it up.

When I was staying there some years prior, I was part of community organisations caring for the coast, opening up public space for walking tracks and debating the merits of development that was happening at an alarming pace. Redgate is unique in many ways for it is in country Australia but it leans green; is obsessed with surfing; focuses on wellness culture, new age spirituality and healthy living; is wealthier than lots of other parts of the country; and is growing. Of course, one does not have to drive very far inland to see that the sea changers are not the only people here and I myself have friends who’d rather be hunting pigs than fishing.  Yet Redgate is a place that keeps me connected to my father and brother-in-law, to nature and the people who live there, to the spirit of a place and a community that are so very far away from the bagel days of New York. They are just as cosmopolitan as any big city however, and, in town, one can find any kind of food you want – there is Japanese omakase, authentic Korean, country Chinese, Contemporary Australian, classic bakeries, a fantastic gourmet pub that screens the footy, and too many other gems to name right here, right now.

My father grew up in the West Australian Wheatbelt in a time when the food choices were limited. In Redgate, which is different place in a different era, there is a cornucopia of food that connects us to everyone in the world. From the ocean to the veggie patch, crayfishing at dawn and watering the lemons at dusk, it is a place that allows us to enjoy ngurra in such a way that our palates meet over lunch and we can reconnect with what matters to us. The only thing we need is a chicken curry in the freezer for when the pots are empty and the surf is so good you come home later than you ever thought possible.